We all want friendships that last forever, right? The kind where you grow old together, spill your secrets, and laugh till your stomach hurts. But here’s a hard truth that nobody really talks about: not every friendship deserves to stick around forever. And honestly? That’s perfectly okay.
Why We Get Stuck on “Forever”
Movies, songs, social media—they all sell us this dream of “ride or die” friendships that never end. But real life isn’t a movie. People change. Life throws curveballs. Sometimes, what felt like a perfect fit at one point just doesn’t fit anymore. And that doesn’t mean you failed or that the friendship was fake—it just means it was right for a certain time, and that time has passed.
When Friendship Starts to Hurt More Than Heal
We all deserve friendships that lift us up, not ones that drag us down. If hanging out with someone leaves you feeling drained, anxious, or just off, it’s a sign. Maybe you’re growing in different directions. Maybe the vibe isn’t healthy anymore.
Letting go isn’t about burning bridges or keeping score. It’s about choosing yourself and your peace. And yes, it hurts — but holding onto something that no longer fits hurts even more.
Friends Come in Seasons, Not Eternity
Think of friendships like seasons. Some come into your life like spring—full of new energy and fresh starts. Others are summer—bright, wild, unforgettable. Some settle in like autumn—comfortable and calm. And some friendships don’t make it to winter—and that’s life.
When you stop expecting every friendship to last forever, you start appreciating them for the moments they gave you. You cherish the memories without forcing something that’s naturally ending.
Moving On Is Growth
Ending or drifting from a friendship is tough. But it’s also brave. It means you’re growing, learning, and making room for the people who truly fit where you’re headed.
Remember: It’s not about how many friends you have that last a lifetime. It’s about the friends who are right for you, right now. That’s what truly matters.
If you’re nodding along to this, maybe it’s time to check in on your friendships. Which ones still spark joy? And which ones are just... well, okay to let go?
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